I'm sorry if this rakes over old ground, but I wondered if anyone can give me some ressurance about DS?
- He is a big thrower - of all things and he throws really hard. We have tried no/removing item/distraction but he simply picks up another item and throws that too.
- He pulls his sister's hair very hard. He really twists it and makes her cry. He does say sorry and stroke her afterwards (if prompted) but will still keep doing it. We are currently trying the tactic of paying her lots of attention when he does it and ignoring him but it's not really working.
- He also hits, pinches and throws things at us when he is in a temper. We have tried to stay calm and say no hitting and not giving in to his mini tantrums but sometimes he really hurts!
So - I was just wondering if anyone has been through this, and that, with patience and time, it resolves itself? Or is this a sign that he may be an aggressive child? My mum (who is generally not to be listened to) says we need to be much stricter with him (she believes in smacking and locking in his room - we definitely do not) and I was wondering if we were being a bit wishy-washy??
Anyway, with a four year old who exhibits teenage beahviour and our ASBO baby I am sometimes at my wits end. Any words of wisdom?
Thanks in advance.