I haven't been on here for a while but now I feel sane. Need to ask you all a question about my ds and wondering if any other ds's are the same out there.
Has a Jekyll and Hyde character. When he's nice he is great, polite, funny, clever, loving. However, he can whine a lot, cry a lot (for a long time), he also tries to control situations as well. He can also say I can't do this (alot).
He's off in his own little dreamworld half the time. I ask him to do something like take his shoes off and I notice he starts picking up toys and plays with them. The only way I can get him to concentrate on anything is to put the egg timer on (he doesn't like this - but I have to).
I can be saying something to him and he won't seem to listen as he's too absorbed in something. However, his teacher has said that he doesn't seem to listen but one following day from a conversation about penguins he recited word for word exactly what she had said.
He plays well with other kids but being the youngest in his school and following his grandads death last year I do wonder if he finds it difficult or not. Plus he's asking questions about death all the time.
Sometimes, we can have really good days with him. We've had a hell of a day from him today though. We've agreed to do sticker charts with him as a way of helping him as he wanted to start this at home (does it at school!)
His sister who is 3.5 is easy going and incredibly happy so I don't know whats going on with him.
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5yr old ds
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lisylisylou · 02/08/2009 21:32
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