I'm worried about my ds who is 6. Over the last 6 months or so he has said quite a few times that he has an ugly face. I don't know where this has come from. I have always told him he's handsome, clever, lovely etc.
Today we went to an indoor play centre. Mostly ds and dd played well but there was a slight scuffle with 2 other boys there. After we left ds commented that he thought the other boy was being mean to him because he had an ugly face. I reassured him that this was definitely NOT the case.
He's a sensitive little thing, can be quite a handful at times, a deep thinker, and quite emotional. He cried the other day because one of the ducks we were feeding at the park hadn't managed to get any of the bread. He also has a temper - I've posted on here before about how to handle his rages.
Is it normal for children to say things like this? I have started to wonder if I've said or done something to make him think like that - I have lost my temper with him on occasion and shouted but I have never said anything about his looks.
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My beautiful ds keeps saying he's ugly.
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KTNoo · 10/07/2009 23:30
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