He's nearly 11, and seems to have lost all focus apart from with wii/xbox360/computer games. I do try to limit his play on them, but all that happens is he goes off to his friends' houses and plays there. I'm not saying that's all he does, I'm sure they play outside a bit too, but his overwhelming focus in life is computer games. He's not sporty, and loathes team sports etc (as did I as a child), but is quite musical and plays a couple of instruments, but NEVER practices them. He used to be such a fabulous reader, exceptional really, but now only reads now and again and always comic books. Is that related to his computer game playing? That his mind can only focus on short comic stories? Or am I reading too much into it?
Anyway, what should I do? Is this normal? (probably very common these days!) Should I intervene and try to find him another focus or should I back off and let him find his own way? I limit his play to one hour on these games, but as I say, he just plays them elsewhere. With the summer hols coming up, I need to get a handle on this - but at the same time don't want to be structuring his time. Help!!!
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10-11 yo, just need a bit of advice
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fartmeistergeneral · 28/06/2009 11:06
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