I am completely stuck as to what to do here. DD (3) is an only, and she does get plenty of attention, obviously. I work 3 days a week, and on those 3 days she's at a childminder's - she likes it, gets to meet loads of other children and babies, and gets on great apparently.
However, with me, she's very possessive and jealous. She's fine if I speak to adults, but if I speak to another child or (God forbid) a baby, she goes mental and has a tantrum. If DH and I have a cuddle or a kiss, she has a hissy fit. I have to 'give the kiss back to him' and then he has to kiss her instead. She's fine if he talks to a baby!
I've run out of ideas to sort this out. We have friends visiting today - my friend and her baby. I've just had a chat with DD and explained that I will be talking to this baby at some point, and she is to be a nice kind girl and not be jealous, but she's kicked off and is point blank refusing. "You're my mummy and you're not to be nice to a baby. You're to be nasty". I have no idea where she gets this from.
Has anyone any ideas? Thanks in advance!
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Oh help please. Jealous 3 yr old DD
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Nyx · 02/06/2009 10:20
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