My gorgeous DS is 11 1/2 mths old and has had a bit of a thing about pulling my hair for a few weeks now - at first it didn't really hurt but now he gets whole handfuls and really pulls and it sometimes brings tears to my eyes .
I deal with it by disentagling him (can take some time ), putting him on the floor and ignoring him for a couple of minutes but it doesn't seem to be having much affect.
The problem now is that he's started to do it to other children - and he is really hurting them and making them cry . I just don't know what to do with such a young child in terms of discipline - I obviously remove him from the situation immediately and, if possible, give the 'victim' lots of attention but I can't then instruct my DS to stay still cos he's too young to understand so while I'm busy making a fuss of the poor baby he's just hurt, DS is crawling off and playing.
If I hold him though, then he's getting a nice cuddle from mummy so that's no good either .
It came to a head today (excuse the pun ) cos we were at a friend's party and within five mins of getting there he had pulled the birthday boy's hair sooo hard he was in floods of tears. I was mortified and could see all the other mothers staring at me .
The only RL advice I've been given is to pull his hair back which I'm absolutely not prepared to do.
Any suggestions?
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Help - serious passion for hair pulling in 11 mth old : (
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babybillandsplodge · 31/05/2009 19:47
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