My ds goes to a childminder who has her her 3year old son there. He copies everything the 3 yr does and has started to throw tantrums. They aren't that major yet, just twisting and turning to get out of my arms when he doesn't want to get dressed, get in the pram etc. He is now walking and putting him in the pram is becoming a real issue as obviously he wants to be independent.
I'm assuming he is just trying to exert his independence through the use of mini tantrums but the problem I have is the frustration I suffer. Does anyone else suffer the same frustration. He is too young to reason with (just turned 1) and explain to that they just don't work.
Did anyone else go through this and how did you resolve it? Do I just have to put up with it. Some days it becomes so frustrating and naturally occurs when you are in the biggest rush to get out the door.
Anyone know how I can explain to him that actions have consequences as well. He has started hitting me on the face when he doesn't want to do something and I want to start teaching him that every action has a consequence but once again feel he is too young to really understand this concept.
All advice welcomed.
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Tantrums! How do I stop them when he doesn't understand reasoning
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Meanmum · 01/04/2003 11:07
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