My DS2 (almost 5) is driving me to distraction at the moment and I am completely at the end of my tether. He has always been very demanding and clingy, and has never been sociable. When he was little I assumed he would just grow out of it, but it doesn't seem to be improving. He also develops obsessions about certain ways of doing things and gets unfeasably upset if we forget his latest "thing", for example
1)He has to wave goodbye to his dad at the window every morning, and then I get ten minutes of screaming that daddy didn't wave enough.
2) He has to be the one to switch the computer light off / TV on and off / put the phone back in its holder and again we get full blown screaming if we forget to let him do this.
3) He doesn't seem to have any friends at school, if I ask him about it he says he doesn't need friends as he has his brother to play with.
4) He doesn't mind loud music but absolutely hates the loo being flushes and goes mad if anyone uses the hand dryers in public loos.
5) He will only wear certain clothes and has enormous tantrums if I try to dress him in anything new.
He seems to be doing ok with his reading and writing in Reception and loves his teachers, in most ways he seems to have reached all the developmental goals for his age, but the unsociable side and the constant screaming tantrums are worrying me. Is he just badly behaved or is it something more than that? Have tried star charts / time out etc to encourage good behaviour but nothing seems to work.
We have a parents meeting soon so I will ask his teachers, but so far they have not mentioned any concerns to me, so I am assuming he behaves ok in class. Any advice appreciated.
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Boyswillbeboys · 25/10/2008 14:29
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