My 3yo dd has been doing one 1/2 day at nursery for the past year. As she is just about to turn 3 (on Sat) she has after a few settling sessions, now been moved to the nursery's pre-school group so she is with bigger children. She has also at the beginning of Sep started a playgroup attached to the school she will, hopefully, start in 2 yrs when she starts school.
Last week she broke her heart about going to nursery so I kept her home as she has been a bit under the weather and she told me she was tired and had "baddie eyes" - her eyes were a little red. This morning, again she cried hard as she didn't want to go, but we insisted she was going - dh took her, she cried a bit when he left her but nursery rang to say she's fine.
She was also awful when I took her to playgroup last week - in hysterical tears when i left her and had to be peeled off me, was clawing my clothes to stay with me - it was so upsetting. She is saying again this week she dosn't want to go - there is a little boy there who is a bit of a handful who she says she dosn't like.
What do I do - do I persevere, ignore the tears and insist she goes? I want her to go happy and hate the idea of forcing her to go to these places, but she has to get used to being left in readyness for school and to learn that sometimes we just have to do these things - but she is so young . I hate seeing her upset. Should I keep sending her. Am sure I should keep going with nursery, but not sure about playgroup - but if i stop now, will I ever get her back again - could be a problem if that's the school she ends up at.
Sorry it's a bit long and garbled! Any advice much appreciated. Thanks
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"I don't wanna go......WAHHHHHHH!!!" - HELP!
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mammabelleboo · 15/10/2008 13:17
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