Dd(8) is being bullied by her "best friends", These girls were her closest mates since age 3 but now have decided dd is uncool, or whatever 8yrolds say. Dd not forthcoming on details but these girls push her, kick her, pull her hair & tell her to get lost but dd keeps going back for more. She says they're her friends & she loves them - how sick is that?! I'm desperate for dd - she's pretty, charming, etc but very naïve.We've had a dreadful year as ds (5) has behavioral problems & is now in psychotherapy. All ds' problems have put a huge strain on our marriage and of course on dd. She has repetitive nightmares & night terrors, is very insecure & basically a sitting duck with her heart on her sleeve. True to human nature, her so-called best friends shun her, she in turn tells teacher, girls get told off, bullying gets worse. If I intervene, the girls will be punished but I know the bullying will either get even worse or dd will be completely ignored for years to come. This is agony! What can I do to help?
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