Why doesn't my ds 'listen'??!!!!
Is this normal? How can I improve this?
It's not 'tidy up this' and he doesn't listen, he's actually very good at hearing and doing commands. It's when he's snatched something off his younger sister, or continues to do something (usually an action that could end up damaging something) and he's just down right defiant. You ask him not to do it, he does it again, you warm him saying he'll be sent to his room or will lose something (a toy or privilidge) if he does it again, he does it again, then it's announced he's lost it or whatever and major tantrum insues, lots of shouting on both parts and a physical struggle to remove him from the room so he can calm down alone (usually to his bedroom).
He's always been a bit of a live wire, lots of energy etc. but generally he's a 'nice' boy. He's been upset going back to school (one of the youngest in the year(1)) so we thought he's just a bit more uptight because of that, but there's been no improvement and it seems to be in a downward spiral. We praise him for his good behaviour, but the bad far outweighs the good for a few weeks now.
Is this normal? Is it a phase? What should we be doing? My mum has suggested trying to be more calm and laid back with him but we start of with that intention, but things still end up exploding. I jsut don't know where to go from here. Heeellllppppp!
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I am at my wits end with my 5yo ds
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99redballoons · 20/09/2008 13:11
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