My DD has just turned 3 and in the last month or so has been behaving like a little monster.
I have gone back to work after being on summer holidays and its dificult to deal with her behaviour without being completely stressed.
She has attended nursery since she was 6 months old and loves it her brother was in the same class as her until the end of August as he has now started school. She still enjoys nursery but is finding it hard to adjust to the change.
We have an AP who helps gets the kids ready in the morning and takes DS to school, she refuses to let the AP get her ready in the morning and has a screaming tantrum. I have to intervene, which means I ma late for work.
She wants to go in the other car to nursery (which the AP uses to take DS to school). SHe screams the 5 min journey to nursery and has to be literally dumped in the classroom. I am assured she stops crying within a few mins and is always fine when I pick her up.
The whole thing starts again when its time for food, bath or bed she refuses to let AP dp it though she will happly play with her. We usually leave her to have her tantrum and then she lets AP do whatever she needs to this is ok in the evenings but in the mornings causes probs. She has let AP sort her out without complaints on a number of occasions but seems to keep trying it on.
I'm getting really upset by it, she was great with the other AP all the way until July when this behaviour started. I dont know what I can do as she refuses to sit on the naughty step and I've taken most of her prized possessions away...
Any suggestions welcome...
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Defiant 3 year old..
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NewTeacher · 17/09/2008 11:42
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