This message hasnt been posted to start a lively debate or to be antagonistic... but I need advice.
I have in the last 2 months on occassion smacked DS on the hand for really naughty behaviour - ie, not doing what he is told, answering back, throwing things - all these things for up 4 hours and then I have smacked him, after doing the usual time out, naughty step, taking toy away, ignoring, shouting and being stupidly cross.
Now I am well aware it is not acceptable to hit ANYONE let alone your children... but does anyone feel that your kdis will jsut push and push and push relentlessly for hours and hours tp see how frickin cross they can make you.
My DS is nearly 4 and we have a DD who is 10 months. I returned to work 7 weeks ago and am pretty stressed out by life.
I am expecting lots of people saying I am a horrid cow, cruel etc.... but whati woudl really like is advice on what to do after all the normal steps of discipline dont work and you are being laughed at by a nearly 4year after a whole day of being a little bugger.
I also get lots of him pretending he cant 'do' things when he realises when need to get somewhere on time - nursery / dentist /shops etc.. a tirade of 'I cant put my shoes on / random item of clothing etc' which he can do perfectly well. He will admit later that he was just pretending?! I feel like I am goign slowly bonkers adn also feel like a complete cow-bag for getting so cross with the little man.
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Boobalina · 26/08/2008 15:46
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