i have got three children aged 3,5,&7, and feel so out of control most of the time. which makes me feel like a bad mother( which i know i am not)
i just feel like im hitting my head against a brick wall.
my 7 year old has turned into a jekeell and hyde character, full of attitude and answering back. which has got worse since she started the junior school.
my 5 year old started school in sept, which she loves, but is just on hype all the time. still runs off and wont come back when i call her.she dosent sleep in her own bed on her own, i have to sleep beside her to get her to sleep. and during the night as soon as i leave my bed shes in mine. i pick her out and put her back, and soon enough shes back again. i would leave her to scream but it wakes the other 2!
my 3 year old is a typical lil boy into everything! we have started trying to take the reins off him a bit the last few months , but its a nightmare, he just runs riot,will not come back when i call him! tescos was a nightmare at the weekend, tried 3 kids walking round( as refused to go in the trolley!) was getting in everyones way, had to force him in the trolley in the end , screaming for the rest of the trip! he dosent sleep much , unless im in his bed, and even then he is up at 5.30am!
picking the girls up from school is the worst bit, he is ok while we get dd2, but as soon as we get dd1, he goes on hype, runs off, then dd1 runs with him, me shouting running down the road after em. i must look so out of control.
i have tried star charts etc, they are ok for a day or so , then the novelty wears off
can anyone offer any advice please
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sassybabee · 16/02/2005 08:41
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