I ask this from a psycology basis as I know that children who are attached are said to grow up with greater levels of confidence and self esteem.
When I look at my nct group the kids have varying levels of attachment - they are all 3 now.
One screams and tantrums if mum tries to leave the house to go out for anything e.g. trip to the shops, gym or a social night out. This includes hanging onto legs and sobbing uncontrollably. Also if child hurts self by falling over no one else can touch them to comfort them.
Then the other extreme is child not unhappy if parents leave. Happy to go to others for spontaneous cuddles etc.
Any views?
Anyone with a psycology background who can explain differing views.
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Is there such a thing as being too attached to a parent, or can a child never be too attached?
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mylittlemonsters · 09/08/2008 20:08
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