I think everyone must do this to an extent but it's something we never say, or maybe it's just me?!
DS (9 months) and I were out today with his wee pal who he has hung out with since birth. I met his pals mummy at antenatal class so they are only 2 weeks apart (my DS 2 weeks older). I know my DS is going to get there eventually with everything but today I couldn't help but think that his pal is so ahead in pretty much everything!
-Pal stands / crawls / walks several steps assisted and even attempts to RUN several steps.
-DS can sit well for ages on his own but makes no attempts at moving AT ALL! Doesn't roll, crawl, hates being on his front, only bears a little weight if standing in the bath (nowhere else funnily enough) and is definately nowhere near cruising or walking.
-Pal can say 'dada' really clearly
-DS says 'babababababaa' and I think is trying to say 'mama' but isn't too vocal in terms of anything recognisable
-Pal waves hello at you when you wave at him
-DS stares at me blankly when I wave at him!
I'm not really sure why I'm posting this but I guess I'm looking for some reassurance that not all babies are doing all the stuff that DS's pal is doing at 9 months. As I said, I know he'll get there eventually but I do wonder if he's lagging behind a little especially when I read what he 'should' be doing by 9 months and he's barely doing any! I feel really bad for 'comparing' as I really don't want to but I think it's only natural...?
Do you all do this or am I just weird???
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I know we shouldn't but do you secretly compare your baby with other babies?
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ILikeYourSleeves · 05/08/2008 19:56
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