My son is 3, 4 in September. He has always been a little difficult and was a terrible sleeper until he was 3.I have a 7 year old who was a good baby and toddler and is still a really kind, and well behaved boy (most of the time)I try not to compare them as I know it doesnt help. I even hear my 7 yo tryng to discipline him to keep the 3yo out of trouble which is sweet but shouldnt be necessary.The younger one is quite spiteful to him and I caught him beating the crap out of him tonight.I will ask the 3yo to do something simple like come and brush your teeth and i get a response of nooo and he will not come until i drag him there. I am a very patient person and I reason with him and try and distract his naughtiness as much as I can,nothing is working. I am not getting comments like 'you havent ha it easy with him have you' and the next door neighbour whose children my boys play with says things to him like 'only if you behave for your mother'.Itsembarrassing. I am a really 'together' mom and a confident one but he has really got me. I have tried counting to 3, the naughty step, taking favourite toys away and even a smacked hand -please dont bombard me with anti smacking posts!I cried yesterday for the first time becaude of his behaviour and feel really down today and i am losing my temper with him quickly as im so sick of him. I dont even like him - except now as he is asleep.dp has recently saw his behaviour as we had a holiday so at least he believe me but i havent even mentioned it to him that its getting me down - he would just reply that he hates work too.Anyone got any constructive advice please
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Sons behaviour is really getting me down - advice please....
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shatteredmumsrus · 24/07/2008 20:02
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