i can't cope with everything being a battle right now. She just laughs her head off whilst defying everything i try and do. The worst thing is I know she's a 'good' child. I know it's a phase yada yada... but right now it's like living with.. i don't know what - this absolutely contrary, infuriating, contradictory mini despot.
So i try and get us ready to go to the park for example and she's so strong i can't even get hold of her to put her shoes on.. and not only is she trying to get away constantly and kicking me she's also pulling down the curtains and rolling around finding thw whole thing hilarious and then when i give up i get 'i want go park! i wan' go park! i WANT GO PARK!!!!'
that's just one example of the thousands of times a day when i think 'if this was 20 years ago i could quite legitimately give her a light smack on the bottom to try and get through to her.' and then i remember that i'm dead against all that, and how terrified i was when i was smacked as a child. and how it's just wrong.
but i am completely at the end of my tether with how to deal with her - she has a 'time out corner' but tbh its' a waste of time. she likes sitting there fgs! and if i was to put her there every time she did something 'unasseptable' she would be there all day.
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i can't cope with my 2.4 yr old anymore. out of control doesn't begin to describe it
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totalmisfit · 16/07/2008 11:56
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