My gorgeous daughter has always been a Mummy's girl. However, lately, all she wants is for me to cuddle her all the time.
I'm been advised by HV etc to not give in all the time but now feel as if I'm denying the affection she so obviously wants.
My mum seems to think she must need reassurance but no matter how much I give, it?s never enough for her.
Daddy is available for cuddles, but she only wants them from me. She even asks for cuddles in her sleep!
We were just having dinner when she started asking for a cuddle. I said we were eating and we would have a cuddle after the meal. She continually repeated 'I want a cuddle' over and over until she then started crying. This led to her being sent to her room to calm down and me torn as to whether I should give a cuddle as this what she wanted all along. I did..... and got her back to the table.... only for it to start all over again.
On Friday we went for our usual visit to her friends? house - there were six three year olds playing but she just wanted to sit with me.
She is due to start Kindergarten in September and has had a few visits during her nursery days and this has thrown her a bit.
Much as I would love to I cannot spend all day cuddling her and really don't know the best way to handle this.
Hubby keeps telling me to stop cuddling her so much, but how much is too much? She is only three and I feel awful denying her cuddles. :-(
Incidentally, when it's just the two of us, I don't get this.... could this mean it is about having me to herself?
Please, please help - I am at the end of my tether and really don't know what to do! :-(
Thank you x
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3.5yr WANTS CUDDLES FROM MUMMY 24.7 - PLEASE HELP
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BlackRock21 · 14/07/2008 17:50
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