hello
am not sure how to deal with dd1's difficult behaviour since the birth of dd2.
she's always been the apple of our eye (a total PFB princess) and received loads of attention from us. Her behaviour has always been really, really good. She's been incredibly easy to deal with, very communicative and bright.
Since birth of dd2 five weeks ago, it's like we've suddenly got a different child in the house. She's bossy, tantrum-y, rude, has selective deafness. Most of this comes in my direction.
She's doing a lot of role play stuff that's quite 'dark' (eg about hitting and biting) - really unlike her.
Am terribly hormonal and not taking it very well. I'm trying to be cheerful and set aside time for the two of us, but she doesn't seem to want me at all at the moment.
I'm struggling with the whole discipline thing too. I feel like I'm constantly telling her off and my mum told me I'm too stern with her the other day. So, should I let the discipline slide and allow behaviour that I don't think is acceptable?? Or will that just make her feel more insecure because the normal boundaries will also have disappeared??
Argh...am in turmoil and filled with guilt and a sense of loss for our old relationship at the moment.
Has my darling girl gone forever?
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dd1 (age 3) acting up since birth of dd2 (5 wks) - how much discipline?
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pregnabrain · 07/07/2008 17:12
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