I am a lone parent, and sometimes find the boys behaviour hard to handle.
When they go to their dad, he never gets the problems I do, and I don't know where I'm going wrong.
Around 15 minutes ago, DS1 (8.5) & his brother were having an argument over a football poster, and DS1 bit into his younger brothers arm leaving teeth marks.
I was very angry & took the poster away from them completely, telling DS1 to go to his room. At first he refused, but I persevered, and he got one of his brother's cards & screwed it up in his hand on his way.
I told him he was losing two of his Captain Underpants books, and told him to get his pyjamas on because he was having an early night.
He is in his room, but totally refusing to put his pyjamas on & screaming out "you're mean", along with other similar things.
I have had to shut his bedroom door & walk away because I feel I am about to lose the plot with him & I don't want to do that.
Where am I going wrong? Be as blunt with me as you need to because I really need help here. I sometimes feel so out of control on my own with these boys, and know I am getting it all wrong.
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I need help with how to handle my DS
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Pinkchampagne · 18/06/2008 18:25
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