We are really having problems in my family. Have a boy nearly 11 and twins boy and girl 8 and 1/2. They are all strong natured, and the boys are close, the oldest boy does anything he can to wind girl up and she reacts, tears, kicking things etc. Also she seems to blow up about anything she can whenever she can.
DH is not patient and doesn't try to calm and diffuse, so every little problem blows up into a huge row, and it is getting me down. I don't know where to go for help, but it is getting to the point where I don't want to wake up in the mornings to another day of hell basically, wondering when it will kick off and who will start it all.
Also if you suggest doing anything to the children that they don't like the idea of, I suggested driving to Oxford today to look around, change of scene, etc, all we get is squabbles, and I'm not doing that kind of reactions.
All I ever wanted was a family, and now I've got them, and they are in the last stages, of wanting to be with us, they will soon start to become more and more independent and be off doing their own things, but I don't want to wish these times away.
I have tried looking for places to help but apart from Relate who are £45 an hour, and you need a lot of sessions, cannot find anything relating to family problems.
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kkgirl · 28/12/2004 22:09
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