Please help - at the end of my tether. DD is driving me to a breakdown!

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My DD (age 2) is driving me towards a nervous breakdown. She is a middle child, have one elder ds (5) and another dd (six months).

WHere do I begin, she is whiny, throws tantrums, doesnt' go to bed properly, sods about when eating her dinner, is unbelievably challenging and worst of all she lets out this horrendous high pitched scream when she doesn't get her own way or she fights with her brohter. They fight constantly, she hits, bites him shouts and screams at him. I can hear her doing it now. I feel like from the minute she wakes up to the minute she goes to bed its one constant battle. I am beginning to despise my life as I find it so wearing.

funnily enough she goes to pre-school three mornings a week and is a bloody angel there.

She constnatly tells me she doesn't like me - I really feel like just giving up with her. I don't know what her problem is. My partner seems to think she's just being a naughty two year old but I am starting to take it alot more personally. Please give me some advice I'm at breaking point!