My 5 1/2 year old boy has since october turned himself into the class bully.
There is an incident nearly every day now, that he has hurt somebody in the playground, or threatened to do so.
At first it could be explained away and in his "favour", but it is every day.
This morning his teacher took me aside and said that he had told a little girl "I am going to kick you in the face" because she wouldnt let him in on the climbing frame.
He used to be such a nice boy. And most of the time at home he is nice and caring. There has been 2 incidents this week where he has pushed his brother who is just 2 1/2. The first time the little boy fell flat on his face and hurt his chin as he was pushed in his back, and this morning he pushed him off the sofa.
I dont believe in smacking, I have never exercised this kind of punishment. I talk to him and explain why good behaviour is essential. The worst I have done is deprive of computer time, and send to his room for a short while.
We dont watch violent movies or cartoons at home, it scares his brother.
At the moment I am beginning to really dislike my own child. I cannot understand why he behaves in this way when he has been told of the consequences; that nobody wants to play with him, nobody wants to be friends with him because he keeps being bad. I keep telling him only HE can change this, and it can only be done by being good.
I dont know WHERE I go wrong. I could cut of my arm for my kids. But with this one, I get nowhere.
I think by now I need to speak to a child psyhcologis or a behavioural therapist that can help me/us understand why he is like this, and what we can do to change it.
Where do I start? The school? The GP?
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QuintessentialShadow · 22/11/2007 12:48
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