hi, my ds is 23 months today and for the past 5-6 months he has become a nuisance when it comes to sharing.i have friends with kids older and younger than him and we were also on the other end of the stick when he was younger and a friends dd (older)would take each and every toy away from him, be it in her house or ours.i would be heart broken at the look on my ds's face and cringed every time she came into contact with him.Now he is at that similar age and he has become 'her' taking away toys etc from kids older and especially younger than him in both our house and theirs.i do feel terrible for the child on the recieving end and am clueless as to what to do to help the sittuation, or even at least how to live with it at i'm having sleepless nights over this.my ds is otherwise a beautiful child, happy and content,speaking and listening to me most of the time, we have a lovely time, its just when we have playtime with other kids he errupts.usually he snatches the toy from the kid saying 'mine' and sad thing of all he puts it away somewhere or gives them to an adult!if you ask him to share he says no and theres no going back.very rarely he shares, but with food its not a problem...whats going on?he now has resorted to lashing out sometimes if theres a struggle and thats worrying as i cannot always be there to police them and cannot rely on the other parents to be a good judge as they seem weak at understanding kids...and who will try to understand when their child is being wronged?i didnt, i only showed people on face value that 'its okay...babies do that'but deep down i wanted to throttle the kid!lolpls give me any advice as to how to cope, i know this is normal and most babies do this but how do i deal with it?what can i do for him, mysle and the other kid?any advice much appreciated.
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HELP!23 months and terrible at sharing...age old story i know!
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kutilputil · 10/11/2007 01:32
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