I’m not really sure why I’m posting this but here goes. I suspect my 16 month old is on the spectrum.
He is a lovely little boy but I’m worried about his development. He has no words, doesn’t point or wave and isn’t yet walking (he cruises and uses his Walker lots but doesn’t have the confidence to let go for more than a second)
He hates messy play but loves water, splashing and general rough and tumble play. He also likes to read the same books with me over and over again, sitting in my lap or reading books on his own. He smiles and giggles lots, loves being tickled and playing peak a boo. He plays with a variety of his toys but there are clear favourites.
He has been on the later side for all his milestones so far and was born at nearly 37 weeks after I had an accident (so not a spontaneous labour).
He commando crawled from 9 months but only started properly crawling and pulling to stand a week before his 1st birthday. He makes lots of noises, babbles lots and has variety in his babbles but not clear words. His hearing is fine, he responds to his name but doesn’t follow any instructions such as where is your book. He is fine with loud places (when we used to get to go to a baby group and swimming) and he loves being at a park watching the other children.
He also has some concerning behaviours- funny about some food textures (he eats well but will only have apple cooked and mashed for example and doesn’t like sloppy food), he shakes his head lots (particularly around bedtime) and hums to himself.
I just have this feeling that he is and as we haven’t been around a lot of other children I don’t know what is normal. All his peers I do know about seem miles ahead of him.
I guess I’m writing because I’m scared- I get so frustrated with his lack of communication as he knows what he wants but can’t/won’t tell me or show me. I have never shouted though I feel like it but I feel so guilty that I can’t seem to give him what he needs. He started nursery recently and they haven’t raised any concerns yet. I just don’t know how I will cope if he is non verbal. I’ve tried talking to my husband but he just tells me not to worry.
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Dragon23 · 28/02/2021 10:47
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