So my sister’s kid is 13 years old. He was diagnosed with ADHD about 3 years ago. He is literally out of control. I get anxious every time they come over to my house. He will break things, wind up my 9 years old who has ASD with developmental delay by calling him names, laugh at him, sticking a tongue out at him, purposely do thing’s to upset him and make him cry. He will draw my walls, put salt in my kettle, last time they came he literally took a whole box eggs and throw them behind my fridge, all while laughing, thinking its fun.
Now I get it as my son has ASD, communication delays, and learning disabilities so while my sons condition is different I have had my fair share with dealing with difficult behaviour but I do not tolerate bad behaviour in the name of anything. Surely having ADHD doesn’t give you a free pass to do whatever you want?!
My sister seem to be oblivious of his behaviour and whatever he does gets “oh it’s because of his ADHD”. No punishment, no consequences, no correcting. Nothing.
Honestly I feel so worked up whenever they come over to the point im thinking of telling my sister, you know what, please don’t come over.
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Surely ADHD is not a free pass/excuse for bad behaviour? I need to vent
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mama2yh · 30/07/2020 03:49
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