I'm having real problems with my 4 year old at the moment (she turned 4 about 2 weeks ago). I was lucky that the "terrible 2's" never happened for me but now she seems to have become a little monster overnight. I'm not saying she has been perfect up until now but her behaviour towards me especially seems to be really bad to the point where I think that I'm a rubbish mother and nothing I do seems to work and she has had me in tears several times . When she's naughty I've tried sending her to her room, I've tried using the naughty stair but short of sticking her to it with super glue that does not work as she just runs away from me laughing, I've taken her favourite toys away saying she can have them back when she calms down and says sorry, I've tried ignoring her demands but nothing seems to work . When she can't get her own way she just screams at the top of her voice in my face, she has shoved me and hit me in the back and is very demanding - for example get me some chocolate, get me some crips, get me a drink, I feel more like a servant sometimes than her mum. If I ask her to do something she just defies me and runs away laughing or just screams at me.
I've recently been off work for 2 weeks (being unwell) and am wondering whether it could be something to do with this - hearing people saying things like "you must be good as mummy is'nt very well" could she perhaps be playing on this, I just don't know.
It's just got to the point where everything is so negative, which makes matters worse and I just don't know what to do. I'm really desperate for some advice can anyone out there help me I feel like such a failure as a mum.
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mumofabby · 17/09/2007 14:16
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