Hi
My son is almost 4 years old and starting school in the next term. We have been attending parent- child swimming lessons for about 9 months and he was doing really well and his confidence soared. But in the last month or so of these lessons he wasn't listening and just doing his own thing swimming around and not actually participating in the lesson. So I decided to swap to the pre school lessons where I no longer get into the pool with him to see if this would help. The first lesson was amazing, he listened to the teacher and did almost everything that was asked of him I was so proud and thought I'd done the best thing for him. However the next week he refused to get in the pool full stop and this has happened the last 3 lessons now.
I just don't know what to do. I don't want to go back to the parent-child lessons as he wasn't benefiting from them at all in the end and of course I don't want him to go backwards. I would really appreciate any advice; it is really important to me that he learns to swim as early as possible as I never learned properly and it's a fear I've lived with all my life.
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Son refusing his swimming lessons
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joancassied · 07/07/2019 10:35
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