I’m at my wits end with my DD age 5. Feels like a negative spiral, with us getting frustrated and constantly having to tell her off - this doesn’t appear to bother her quite often laughs and smirks. Only gets upset when sent to bed early or tablet time taken away.
She doesn’t listen to instructions or things explained to her/answers to questions
E.g. will hear but will continue problem behaviour seconds later.
Fidgety/distracted
Talks constantly but doesn’t really ‘say’ much
Difficulty getting to sleep / bed - excessive talking
Fixated on unimportant parts/details
Untidy bedroom, moves from one thing to next without tidying up, gets bored easily and gives up easily. Not willing to try again after failing.
Loves to play imaginatively mums and dads or barbies etc
Appears sociable but can withdraw or appear to not know what to do in some situations.
Cries / tantrums or rages over sometimes insignificant things.
I’m not sure if I’m a terrible parent and expecting too much of her or there is something more going on. I raised some of my concerns in school and they initially said they agreed but have now said they think she’s improved. I think a lot of her behaviour could go unnoticed in a busy reception class and tbh one her things is she almost zones out and you wouldn’t automatically realise she wasn’t absorbing what was being said.
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5 year old DD behaviour
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Marsis · 15/06/2019 21:28
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