Just attended parents evening for my 8 year old DD, she is doing well in all her subjects, although lacks focus and has to be cajoled to complete work on occasion, however we have a few issues and I'm not sure how to help/fix/sort..
One problem that was brought up last night was she hates taking part in any team sports in PE, she will cry and sob until she is allowed to watch from the sidelines. Obviously we cannot allow this to go on forever, I've spoken to her and she can't say exactly why she doesn't like it, but she hates being in the middle of a group and them shouting at her (like pass the ball etc) and she feels stupid if she doesnt understand the rules.
Her teacher also mentioned her lack of friends, she said she doesn't take any crap from any of her classmates and is well liked but she doesn't/hasn't formed any close friendships at all. This has been the way since her schooling started (3rd school to date), i'm aware that moving her so many times probably hasn't helped but this cannot have been helped and I'm hoping this will be the end of moving for now. I can';t help but feel incredibly sad for her, she doesn't seem to mind a lack of friends but it;s difficult when her younger sister is the life and soul of the school party and has friends across the years...
Her other issue and this is getting better as she ages but she has a reaction to anything she feels is disgusting or gross and essentially she will be sick. This can happen at any moment, reading books, watching TV etc, she is now better at getting to the toilet but she still reacts badly. We limit the things we know make her sick but we cannot account for everything (she threw up the other night after reading a book about fairies).
I'm just stuck, she's a smart and funny kid, is there more to it or is she just a loner. She never seems bothered if people don't play with her, she never asks for playdates.
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8 Year Old DD - Friendships, school and other issues
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HelloDoris · 04/04/2019 11:47
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