Hi everyone!
This is a bit of a vague question but it's something I'd really appreciate some advice on.
My 19 m/o daughter is terrible at following instructions and being told what to do. She has such a strong will, she just does what she wants regardless of what I'm trying to tell her. A few examples: we're walking down a busy street and I ask her to hold my hand (I feel a lot better having that physical connection in those situations to stop her getting in the way or getting lost), and she'll just pull her hand away and outright refuse. Sometimes we'll walk holding hands, but only if it's what she feels like at that moment.
But the biggest issue - and the motivation for my posting this question - is her behaviour at groups. I've recently started taking her to a football class for toddlers aged 18 months - 3 years and there are breaks between the activities where the children sit with their parents while the coach explains the next activity. She's always excited from the previous activity so getting her to sit with me rather than run off cause distractions is a nightmare. She'll push away from me and scream and cry and I always feel so embarrassed, because every other child is sitting there quietly.
I don't doubt it's some part of my parenting that's responsible for this behaviour, but I don't know what. In every other way she's a perfectly well-rounded child. She shares well with other children, she's not at all violent or aggressive (unless I'm having to force her to do something, like sit still in football), she's learning to tidy up after herself... etc.
Any thoughts would be massively appreciated!!
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Badly behaved 19m/o - help!
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YogaMama94 · 01/03/2019 21:18
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