NC for this as I am embarrassed to be struggling so much. DS is 20 months old and huge. Half my height and almost 1/3 my weight. He will not have his nails clipped or filed. In the past, having failed at distraction, making a game of it, getting him used to the clipper / file, encouraging him to file his own nails, etc we have had to restrain him, and it has been hugely upsetting for everyone. Now he is so big, it's very hard and quite dangerous. He head butts and hits and kicks and claws at my eyes. It's the same with trying to brush his teeth. We invite him to brush our teeth, we've let him choose his own toothbrushes, we play him the Tombliboos toothbrushing thing on YouTube, we encourage him to play with the toothbrush - but we've only managed to brush his teeth about 3 times ever. He struggles so frantically and is so strong that I can't see how on earth we are meant to do it without risking his putting an eye out with the toothbrush.
His tantrums are loud and violent, lasting up to an hour, and he screams so loudly and so long I worry for his vocal cords. He also rarely sleeps more than 2 hours in a row due to night terrors. I'm so sleep deprived I can hardly tie my shoes and am at my wits' end. No family nearby to help.
GP says 'he'll grow out of it', and isn't concerned as DS is very verbal, sociable, etc. But I don't think this can be normal, or how on earth does anyone have more than one child? I see other dc his age at the playground and they are clean and groomed
and have tantrums that last maybe 20 mins tops and don't involve thrashing and hitting and kicking and clawing and screaming.
DS has been ill and off Nursery for 1.5 weeks and not sleeping at all and screaming all the time and I feel like someone has taken sandpaper to my brain.
I don't know what I'm hoping for - maybe advice about how to look after the basic physical hygiene needs of an enormous angry toddler? Reassurance that this will pass...? Confirmation that this sounds quite extreme? Any suggestions welcome!
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TheOnlyUpsyOne · 29/11/2018 11:40
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