My son is 5 soon and his behaviour is truly
worrying.
He’s had a complex life and his dad was absuive to me . We went into refuge when he was 8 months old and then the courts decided he’d have to have contact , so he’s been going alternate weekends. He has made some worrying disclosures recently which I don’t want to share online but let’s just say the contact doesn’t seem to of been positive or so he is saying.
We had two cats a few years ago when this behaviour started . He’d continually be nasty to them. He once wrapped the girl up in a quilt and kicked her. I was shocked and devastated . I tried everything - positive over little good things and taking things off him. I used time out and reflection . I’ve took technology away. Nothing had been working. Eventually I re homed the cats which broke my heart.
I had a baby who is now 8 months and the behaviour has started since he was born. They can’t be left alone together. He is trying to be physically nasty most days now to the youngest. I know it can be jealousy but it feels like there’s more to it.
He can be such a sweet little boy but there’s this underlying attention seeking and nasty behaviour. It’s so upsetting and I’m at loss at to what to do.
Why is he doing this and what can I do before things escalate further?
He’s currently upstairs for being nasty again to his brother and trying to hit him !!
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My nearly 5 year old and behavioural issues
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Hellohun · 27/10/2018 12:35
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