Hi, I feel like I am really not coping.
My DD is nearly 6 yrs old and keeps having tantrums over little things. She gets really worked up, and I'm not coping with it - I seem to just make it worse in the moment.
This morning she kept asking me for Supergirl's real name, just before we were leaving the house for school (putting our shoes on). I said I did not know it - I thought she was just called Supergirl. She kept asking, getting more an more irate, saying that my DH had told her the name and there is 'another Supergirl'. I kept asking her to calm down and talk to me nicely, and telling her I did not know the answer, and to ask Dad.
It just got worse and worse - she speak in this whiny, shouty voice, crying voice and then she threw herself on the floor. It goes on, and on. In the moment I feel I have nowhere to go - she won't accept what I'm saying and won't calm down. I end up loosing my cool and really shouting, and this morning in her flapping about she fell and hurt her bottom.
I've just dropped her off at the school gate then cried all the way home.
This kind of tantrum happens every day, sometimes several times.. When she tantrums, I've tried threatening her with taking things away if she won't stop - but then it gets on to an argument and tantrum about that. I send her to her room sometimes, but she refuses to go initially or keeps coming out - so that's just another issue on top of the original one.
Please help!? I'm worried we are drifting apart.
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Not handling 5 yr olds tantrums well
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Peace425 · 11/09/2018 09:43
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