My two & half year old son is horrendously naughty. Every single day he will behave badly.
He’s violent - towards me, his dad, family pets, grandparents, other family members and other children in the group he goes to. Hitting, scratching, neck squeezing, grabbing, biting etc. He also throws objects at people - with an unfortunately accurate aim. I have to keep him separate from the dog as it’s a small dog and I’ve caught him strangling her.
He isn’t around any violence/aggression and hasn’t been exposed to it on tv etc, so I don’t even know where he gets it from.
He demands food such as chocolate and he demands things like Peppa Pig. He doesn’t listen, is very spoilt and hates hearing the word no. He’s constantly climbing on furniture and touching things he knows he shouldn’t be touching. He’s cheeky. Some days I honestly think I have the devil as a son.
I’ve tried everything to stop this behaviour. Shouting & telling him off doesn’t work - he laughs/doesn’t care. I’ve smacked him back (not hard obviously) and again, he didn’t care. I tried for weeks persisting with time out, but now he’s at a point where he runs off and isn’t phased at all.
I’ve tried punishing/rewarding behaviour with tv programmes/treat foods. But it hasn’t worked and if I’m being honest when he’s on top devil form I’d rather put Peppa Pig on the tv so he stops getting into mischief.
I’ve heard all about terrible twos but I know his behaviour goes beyond that. He’s unbelievable. All the other children at his group are perfectly behaved in comparison. I did think perhaps he had ADHD but my doctor doesn’t seem to think so - he’s no developmental issues, doesn’t fidget, can entertain himself with one toy for hours and loves sitting and reading.
He’s not all bad obviously. He’s very loving and affectionate. But honestly I think I’m raising a criminal. I feel like he’s the spawn of Satan.
I do just want to add (feeling guilty) he isn’t all bad. He’s affectionate and loving, funny, clever, beautiful etc. Just so naughty...
He is my first/only child and I really don’t know what to do? I’m sure this isn’t normal terrible twos behaviour. Would appreciate any advice :)
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My toddler is so naughty
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Sarah298 · 05/09/2018 17:47
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