I have a beautiful 11mo DS.
I love him dearly.
But he is SUCH hard work!
I’ve got a lot of friends with babies similar ages and none are like him.
He needs constant attention, he can play on his own for about 2 mins maybe 1-2times a day if I’m lucky. The rest of the time he is SHOUTING (not crying) at me if I’m not playing with him.
He protests by shouting “nonononono” at everything - nappy change, face and hands wiped, getting in car seat, pram, dangerous objects taken off him , often just for no apparent reason.
He won’t sit in his high chair - always trying to stand up and climb out.
Hardly eats anything - mostly only eats fruit. Won’t let you feed him (I did BLW so not bothered about this ). Can use a spoon perfectly but chooses to throw the spoon across the room all the time.
Fights all naps so you have to rock him or walk about with him for at least 30 mins before he’ll fall asleep.
He loves books but won’t finish one- just points at new books and throws his previously selected one aside.
Basically I just don’t understand why he can’t be more placid - my friends babies or the same age will sit in a high chair and eat food without trashing the place or shouting or throwing. In fact my friends babies will sit on a picnic blanket and eat a meal.
I am exhausted. Any advice on managing him welcome .
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Why is my baby such hard work!??
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DodecahedronCat · 26/07/2018 09:12
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