I’m a mum of 4 month old twins. Over the past week I’ve noticed they’ve started to become more awake and they need more stimulation. They don’t look like newborns anymore and it breaks my heart. My mother in law offered to look after them last week and I got so angry - I felt like she was trying to steal them. This week I can see that they are doting grandparents but I wanted to do it “all alone” because “I am strong and don’t need help.”
It would be selfish to keep them in my house all day while I get the washing/chores done but it’s hard to “let them go.” Is this normal? I find it hard to accept love as I feel like they want something - to steal my babies.
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Can anyone relate? My heart is breaking
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Newbabies15 · 11/06/2018 17:45
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