Our 6 year old started telling us that she was being teased about her hair colour a few weeks ago. Her early reports seemed plausible and we took her very seriously and reported it to the school etc. However, when she's mentioned this more recently it's become apparent that she's not being entirely truthful, changing her story and people's names etc etc. The school have also been monitoring her and have said that there doesn't seem to be any issues.
Just want to check if this is normal behaviour for a 6 year old..? I imagine this must have started with some element of truth, but now she has got carried away with the drama of it, and is making stuff up. Just feel very baffled as to how to proceed as I don't think she is purposefully lying with malicious intent, but I really want her to understand that it's not acceptable for her to lie to us.
Would love to hear if anyone else has experienced this and how they dealt with it!
I just feel a bit uncomfortable about accusing her of lying in a very direct way as I feel unsure about exactly how much of it is a lie, and don't want her to feel that she's cried wolf and we won't believe her now..
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6 yo lying about being teased at school
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Thismumcodes · 23/02/2018 15:02
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