Hi all. My DS turned one a couple of weeks ago and had his check a few days later. The HV came, and went through the questionnaire I had previously been sent and filled out. There was a lot he could do, that I marked off but seemed to be a couple in every area he wasn't doing yet.
Now, I've worked in childcare for over 7 years before having a LO of my own, so most of me fully knows all children develop differently, at different stages and will do things when they're ready no problem with that. But some things she said to me kind of made me feel like I wasn't good enough and hadn't been doing enough with DS to encourage him. For background to not drip feed, I am a single parent Work 3 days a week, and my DS comes with me to Nursery I work at 2/3 days and he is with my Mum for the other...
She is coming back in a few weeks to "check he can do the unmarked ones or will have to be referred to a paediatrician to look into why he isn't developing" - her words. Just wanted some experiences/opinions on if I should be a bit worried or not? Thank you!!
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ANother27 · 28/01/2018 13:08
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