I'm at my wits end with my 3 yo DS. So much so I sometimes feel that I don't like him anymore a lot of the time. He is defiant, dangerously so. If we are walking near a road and I ask him to stop he would grin and run into it, if I ask him not to touch something, he'd grab it and run off, he grabs onto other children and pulls them round, grinning all the time. He's not violent or angry, he just loves getting a rise and it's dangerous. I try to explain simply why he mustn't do these things and he parrots it back but that doesn't stop the impulsive defiance. I want him to have the freedom without me helicoptering but he's a liability. I try to build up little by little but it's one step forward and two back.
I know defiance and impulsiveness is normal but how can I work through it? Any games we could play? Advise on what to say? How can I help teach him empathy? Patience? Books to read? I've decided to stop him watching television in the day as he's not learning how to behave and interact by watching CBBC.
I need the child equivalent of a dog trainer ☹️
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Unmanageable 3 year old
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Flabbermingo · 24/01/2018 00:36
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