DS loves other children but is still learning how to socialise with them. He started at the local preschool in January and seems to be well liked but I've noticed he's really shy. For example, we see some of the other preschool children in the park at the weekends and ds is desperate to play with them but is too shy to go up and say hello. So he goes and hides in the bushes and makes squeaking noises and then gets upset that no one has noticed him . Today he wanted to play with another child who he knows well so we agreed we would go up and say hi to her and her mum together. I said hi and chatted to them, ds did not. They played near each other for a bit but the little girl kept trying to talk to ds and ds was just growling back at her, so she started to get upset about it and didn't want to play with him anymore.
He gets very upset by it. The other children all wave at him and say hi/bye when they see him, but he can never quite work up the courage to wave back, then he bursts into tears after they've gone because he didn't wave!
We already do play dates and I try my best to be sociable and chatty with the other children and their parents. I don't push him to do anything he's really uncomfortable with. Is there anything else I can do?
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Shy 3 year old
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ColdTeddy · 18/06/2017 20:36
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