I'm currently sat in soft play hell attempting not to cry.
My 3.5 year old daughter has just had another huge tantrum during which she hit, kicked and screamed at me. She had this tantrum because she had to go on time out for biting her sister.
This behaviour is happening daily now and I don't know how to cope with it any more. Whenever she does this I respond in the same way, the behaviour is ignored until she stops the tantrum (if she hits or kicks I move her away from me) once she stops she is put on time out and then if she has been violent she also looses something (e.g. a toy, TV time, a treat). I then talk to her about why I won't accept that behaviour, how it makes me feel and she has to say sorry.
It's not working, she doesn't care, as soon as time out is mentioned the behaviour escalates. The only consistent trigger I can see is that she's not getting her own way, she's not tired, hungry or thirsty. I've spoken to preschool and they say she's never behaved like that there.
It can't go on like this, I literally feel like the whole of soft play just stopped and stared at my pathetic attempts to control my daughter, in the end I had to take her into a corner and physically restrainer her (ironically I'm trained in this because I worked in a special needs school for children with behaviour problems ).
I feel like I'm failing, I'm an early years teacher who can't manage her own child. Please someone tell me what to do.
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Please help I'm at breaking point with my daughters behaviour.
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PinotAndPlaydough · 18/06/2017 13:40
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