My lo is 20 mo. My mil cares for him 3 days a week. When he's at home or anywhere else with me he's a real mummy's boys. Always wants to be on my knee, have cuddles from me, cries if I walk out of sight etc... But when my mil is around he replaces me with her - so only wants to be with her, cries for her etc... he'll even cry if I go to pick him up and he'll say he wants her!
I find it really hard. I can see she loves it (who wouldn't I suppose). I know she really spoils him and lavishes him with attention so that's probably why he's so fond of her but I still struggle with feeling pushed out and even a bit embarrassed that he appears to favour her over me.
I know I should be grateful he has such a good relationship with her and I am - the more people who love him and he loves the better. It's just I just adore him so much and it makes me feel sad to be dropped like a hot potato when she's around.
I suppose I just want reassurance that despite his behaviour, I am special to him. Anyone else in the same boat? Or feel the same way?
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Feel like toddler prefers mil
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Aria2015 · 05/04/2017 10:25
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