I'm posting this for my friend.
She was in the class room this morning of her 9 year old son, and the teacher again expressed concerned over his lack of positive emotion. This isn't the first time people have commented on this and it's starting to worry her.
He is known as 'grumpy xxx'. And there are often comparisons to him being a grumpy old man.
He struggles to show excitement, example being: if he is in a group activity with other children even though he sometimes appears to get almost excited about the upcoming event but as soon as he is asked if he is looking forward to it he shuts down and will turn defensive and grumpy and reply with a stern 'no'.
He has also never had an interest in childs toys, even when he was an toddler, and seems to lack imagination, he is very black and white with his views and will get really cross if there are changes to any daily schedules ie. Upset and angry when teacher was off poorly.
He's also extremely fussy with food, will only really eat pot noodles happily, everything else a huge struggle.
He struggles and gets very angry if he can't have the last word on something he feels very strongly about, even butting in on adult conversations if he has a strong view on the topic, he's not shy in that respect. In the evenings he watches minecraft videos or plays x box, no interest in much else.
I suppose the biggest worry is that he is isn't happy with life as he seems so grumpy and takes life so seriously for a child of his age. He got very stressed about the electricity company turning off power yesterday as they received a letter to say they would be without power from 3 till 5pm, the power actually only went off for 30 seconds and he had a bit of meltdown as it wasn't what the electricity company had said they would do. This really upsets my friend as she's not sure why change should upset him so much. She doesn't feel like he enjoys life as other 9 year olds do.
Does anyone have any similar experience or advice I can give to my friend?
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9 year old has trouble showing excitement/happiness, takes life very seriously
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Redyellowpinkblue · 09/03/2017 11:17
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