I have found myself sucked into a loose collective of mothers of children of around three (my son is a few months shy of his third birthday). Everyone but me drives a gas guzzler SUV and sends their kid to a posh pre-prep type school, while mine goes to a playgroupy thing. I'm the only one planning on going to local state primary.
Anyway, part of me thinks that we should all be Swedish don't teach them to read until they're seven types and is relaxed about formal learning.
The other part of me is furiously competitive and completely freaked out by the fact that they say their children recognise all the letters of the alphabet, can hold a pencil properly and are going to serious interviews at posh schools.
I don't want to let ds down by not encouraging him and giving him a good start in life, but neither do I want to be pushy.
What is normal at this age? Is there any correlation between precociousness and intelligence (I didn't speak until I was three)? Please reassure me that the only important thing to teach your child at this age is to respect the feelings of others (I would boast, were I going to get into a boast-fest with them, that ds is very empathetic and has never shown any violence to another human).
Pol
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How to avoid competitiveness re. "academic achievement" in 2-3 year olds?
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PollyParanoia · 22/02/2007 15:33
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