Gosh I don't know where to start.
My 8 year old ds has become so challenging.
He was a really easy baby and toddler, he got quite cheeky once he started school but it's escalated.
Where do I start? He moans and sulks constantly. The second I collect him from school he demands to know what's for dinner, I'm scared to answer because if it's not the right answer he throws a strop. Next he starts asking for sweets, he knows the answer is no, he's allowed fruit/cheese/crumpets before dinner. He wants to go straight to the park.
He does clubs 3 nights a week, swimming, football and cubs. When he's not doing those he's moaning like crazy that he's bored, he's got a room full of toys, free range on the television, a garden to play in, but all he wants is the playstation, which he is not allowed on during the week. He knows this, yet still moans and strops. So I've started taking him to the park after school, but he moans at the park that he's bored, then he moans when it's time to go home.
Saturdays we are always out and about doing all kinds of nice things. Yesterday for example we took him for his haircut, then to see grandparents, then to the park, home for a while then out to a nice place for tea and to a fair and fireworks display. He moaned during the fireworks display and spent the whole time sulking and kicking leaves, he moaned because we didn't have sparklers.
The week before we went to three different really nice parks, to look round a toy shop to get an idea of Christmas presents, then for a pub meal, he ruined the meal because he spent the whole time complaining that we wouldn't get him a pudding. Even though we pre warned him we wouldn't, but promised him a nice yoghurt from the supermarket.
It's really difficult to get him to listen to do anything, going for a shower, brushing teeth, going to bed, doing homework.
We've been spending Sundays having quiet days, doing a roast, homework, board games, so that we all get a rest, it's a nightmare though because ds moans and whines all day.
He gets up so early, I've had to tell him not to get up until 7 because he was getting up at 5am some days, he doesn't go to sleep, I get him to bed for 8.15pm with a story but he doesn't get to sleep till way after 9 and sometimes 10.
His school is 1 mile away but we drive purely to save time because I have work 3 days a week. Would it help if I walked him to school? Maybe he's not getting enough exercise?
All I know is things feel so negative I'm becoming afraid of him.
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Dealing with my 8 year old
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Tallzara · 06/11/2016 21:07
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