I know it sounds pathetic but it's how I feel. She well and truly wears the trousers and I'm struggling to keep control. She's fiery, short tempered, intelligent and manipulating. She's also wonderful and kind, but, and maybe this is because we've spent alot of the summer holidays together, I have really come to dislike her. I feel awful saying this but she is so infuriating it takes all my self restraint not to back hand her, or to pull her hair when she refuses to walk with me.
She does things knowing there's nothing I can do about it. For example, she falls asleep in my bed, is put to her bed once she's asleep, and quite often comes back in during the night. Her and her younger brother share a room and she knows damn well if she shouts and wakes her brother up she'll get to stay in my room, pushing me off to the sofa. She doesn't listen, at all, not to the smallest request to a serious telling off. We're at a constant stalemate.
I don't want to constantly be shouting or reprimanding her but if I'm honest, our bond isn't great. I struggled with PND right from the start, and it's never really recovered. What makes it worse is a MIL, although well meaning, tries to give me tips (she's a social support worker and works with struggling families) and it just makes me feel even worse about the situation. For whatever reason she sticks to me like glue, wherever i go she has to be there, yet she's constantly nasty. She dislikes her dad, and I'm really not sure why, but her grasp on me is suffocating. I can't sit down without her on my lap, and her face in mine. She screams constantly, winding her younger brother up, is nasty to him, hits bites pulls hair...
Help me! Before I have a mental breakdown!
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I'm being bullied by my 5 year old
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DaniSecker · 26/08/2016 13:19
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