DS was given a smartphone this year. He promptly got mugged, it was stolen ,recovered and held as evidence for about 8 weeks. Anyway he got it back, and since he's been on it all hours, until we took it away for the night. It was hard to prise him off it, he seemed to have no ability to self limit (mostly playing games but also texting friends). It came to a head last weekend and we took it away. His behaviour has generally improved, less rude, less aggression towards DS2 (9yo). He has been bored but generally picks up his kindle and reads or plays with his lego (we have no TV and allow 1/2 hour on computer for games). I have also made a point of getting him to cook dinner with me every evening which he has enjoyed.
He is expecting his phone back this weekend, but frankly I have loved the new him without mobile, not having to ration the time on games, less aggression etc. Ideally he just wouldn't have one, but I know he'll be very angry if he thinks he'll never get it back. Previously he had it to take to school, and handed it to us in the evening. He refuses to consider a Nokia phone for texts and calls ("everyone will laugh at me").
Thanks for any advice on this tricky problem.
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whataboutbob · 13/07/2016 13:39
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