DS has turned into a complete arse over the last few weeks/months. He used to be fairly okay but recently he laughs when being told off and spits at everything.
He keeps running off when it is dangerous and refusing to hold my hand when walking somewhere.
He hits and bites me sometimes too.
I was sat watching a video and he was in the front room just now (watching cartoons) and once again I could hear him spitting. There seems to be no reason but his disrespectful, rude and downright dangerous at times behaviour is getting to the point where I really wonder if I am parenting right at all. When I was a kid I would have been smacked for any of this behaviour. I chose not to smack because I am scared I'll be accused of abuse. He already shouts angrily when things don't go his way and it feels like he does that more when he has been shouted at recently so I don't want him to copy smacking either.
He's been calling myself and my partner fat and I caught him being very abusive to the cat by locking her in her cat carrier and rolling it around with her in it. I stopped him immediately and made him sit in on his bed with the door shut so he couldn't just get up and leave.
I really am done with his behaviour right now so please can anyone help me? Apparently he's really well behaved at nursery so it must be something I am doing.
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Spitting 4 year old
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bootytoots · 21/06/2016 14:04
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